This is the first part of the story sent by a heartbroken lady. She is asking for advise on how to heal on from a bad relationship. Please share your advise with her as she is still in a traumatic state of mind.
Everyone should listen to this: Office relationship is the worst. I do not advise anyone to get involved in it except you are willing to suffer emotional pain like me. I really felt sorry for the lady that is having an office affair with her boss and her colleague. When I got a job four years ago in this company, the BM took a special liking to me.
Actually, I was a fool to believe that. Anyway, he was fun. We hid our affair for a full year. The best part was I was truly in love and I thought he too was in love with me. The excitement of hiding in office toilets to do quickies or even slap my behind when no one was looking got me all love struck.
We hung out every day after work and even on weekends. It was a crazy love. Until, we started having issues for no reason. We argued and he took everything to the extreme.
We argued about small things like: why did I allow a guy to look at me a certain way or why he did not pick me up when we closed but allowed me to go home alone.
Before I knew it, he broke up with me. I cried and cried and begged and begged but he gave a stupid reason like office romance is not good, that he cannot concentrate at work, bla bla. That is after 1 year. I went on leave to get myself back.